Believe in yourself, believe in what you want, believe that you can have what you want. There is more than enough to go round for everyone. Whatever IT is you want is out there, waiting for you, finding it's way to you.
Hold onto wanting whatever it is you want, even when it seems you would not have it. Do not weaver in your wanting it. As long as you continue to want it, it will come no matter how long it takes.
Do not settle for less, you can keep busy with other things but never give up on that thing you want, because it is working its way to you. And while you think you want it, it wants you more. Sometimes by wanting it, you are simply responding to the call, to the attraction of it wanting you.
So do not go about short-changing yourself by lowering your standards and expectation. Because when you shortchange yourself, you will not enjoy or be truly happy with what you have.
However, if you stop wanting what you wanted, you have the absolute right to change your mind. You are not a cast in stone, and therefore don't feel guilty about changing your mind, nor should you feel the need to explain yourself to anyone unless you want to.
I would end by the famous quote " What You Want Wants You".
